MOON SIGNS AND EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

CONSCIOUS PARENTING USING ASTROLOGY



MOON SIGNS AND EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE


By Babette Lacy

I can’t help but giggle when I hear a parent make a comment like “Well, kids don’t come with an instruction manual!” As an astrologer, I believe they do. As a parent, I can empathize with the frustration of parents who are trying to gain some insight, and I can also empathize with the frustration of teens and children who feel misunderstood. I’m thrilled that astrology has become so main stream that everyone is well versed on the traits of sun sign astrology, however, I’m much more interested in an individual’s moon sign.


A professional astrologer looks at about ten planets, a number of asteroids, and the placement of planets around the zodiacal wheel for a complete view of an individual. Each planet in an astrological chart describes a different part of our psyche, our personality, or our way of being. The moon in a chart is given almost as much importance as a person’s sun sign because the two luminaries “shed the most light” on an individual’s make up. The way the two work in harmony with one another is that the sun shines outwardly, revealing the personality, the ego, and the outward persona. The moon on the other made to feel comfortable and secure. I would prefer getting to know the inner person, rather than the ego reflected out into the world. The outward persona will be highly visible anyway. I want to see the vulnerable underbelly, I want to know what is not shown to the world.


In his book “Emotional Intelligence”, author Daniel Goleman talks about the idea that it is more important to be emotionally intelligent than it is to have a high IQ. He claims that it is imparitive that we teach our children how to handle their emotional self. We attain greater emotional balance as we grow older. The best gift we can give our children is a greater understanding of who they truly are, and to give them effective tools for dealing with their emotions.


To determine your child’s moon sign it is important to have an accurate horoscope cast. You can obtain a chart from a professional astrologer, your local metaphysical bookstore, or online sites that produce free charts. Once you have that in hand, much will be revealed. You may be able to tell without the chart. Here is a little tour around the wheel:


MOON IN ARIES-(FIRE)-your child is rather fast and fiery with their emotional reactions, quickly expressed, quickly forgotten, no hidden emotions, and expressed before thought about. They are quick to fall in and out of love, and highly value their independence. Your child’s challenge is to harness their emotional energy and channel it into positive pursuits. Celebrity Example-Angelina Jolie


MOON IN TAURUS – (EARTH)-sensual and steady emotionally, your child prefers solid and steady relationships. They like affection and life’s comforts, a cozy, safe, calm atmosphere, they like emotional and financial security, and they are attached to their home, garden and possessions. They may be a collector, they are likely described as determined, stubborn and possessive. Your child’s challenge is to broaden their horizons and to take risks on occasion. Celebrity Example-Prince Charles


MOON IN GEMINI-(AIR)-your child is multi-faceted, they crave variety, mental stimulation, and an active social life. They are a flirt and may be involved in more than one profession. Your child needs to be constantly on the go, may have a difficult time with commitment, therefore your child’s emotional life may be a little chaotic. One of their challenges is to focus their energies or they tend to be quite fragmented, help them find a creative way to express their multi-faceted nature. Celebrity Example- Jim Carrey

MOON IN CANCER - (WATER) – your child is sensitive and caring, very much in tune with the needs of others. Some children mask this well with a hard exterior “shell”. Your child may be involved with caring for people as a profession. They have a sharp memory, keen intuition and natural psychic ability. They are happiest at home and would also enjoy working from home. Celebrity Example – Tom Cruise

MOON IN LEO – (FIRE) – your child is warm and passionate and takes command emotionally. Your child needs support, love and loyalty from those they love. They are attracted to all that is noble, generous, and aristocratic. They are natural leaders and they are comfortable in the limelight. They are possessive and roar loudly if someone threatens their territory. Celebrity Example – Paul McCartney

MOON IN VIRGO – (EARTH) - your child likes to be the teacher; their goal is to change others for the better. They are intelligent, articulate and organized. They drive themselves and others to attain perfect standards. Their challenge is to lighten up and accept themselves and others as they are. Celebrity Example – John F. Kennedy

MOON IN LIBRA- (AIR) - your child is most charming in an elegant, harmonious atmosphere. They like all things in balance, they do not care for extremes. Your child is relationship-oriented and may have a difficult time being alone. Like other air sign moons, they think before they feel. Your child may not be able to recognize the emotional needs of others. Your child’s challenge is to learn to lean on themselves first, then they can have excellent partnerships and friendships. Celebrity Example – Leonardo DiCaprio

MOON IN SCORPIO – (WATER) – your child is very passionate and intense on an emotional level. They have a need for power and control. They may have a dramatic emotional life full of suspicion, jealousy, obsession and love. Your child likes to know about what is below the surface and they do well in the fields of investigative research, psychoanalysis and intuitive work. Your chilld’s challenge is temperance. Celebrity Example – Elizabeth Taylor

MOON IN SAGITTARIUS – (FIRE) – your child is optimistic, fun loving and full of wanderlust. They take everything with a grain of salt. Your child is in constant search of mental and spiritual stimulation. They love to explore new horizons, new cultures, and new philosophies. Your child’s challenge may be to settle down and stay in one place. Celebrity Example – Donald Trump

MOON IN CAPRICORN – (EARTH) – your child is very goal oriented and has a very strong drive to succeed. Structure and order make your child feel secure. They can be perceived as being cool and calculating. Your child takes duty and responsibility seriously. Their challenge is to balance fun with work. Celebrity Example— Brad Pitt

MOON IN AQUARIUS— (AIR)— your child is the happiest surrounded by a group of eclectic friends and may feel uneasy alone. They detest rigidity and scheduling. Demanding relationships and intense emotions turn them off. Your child needs plenty of space and they enjoy their freedom. Your child’s challenge is to connect deeply on an emotional level. Celebrity Example—Princess Diana

MOON IN PISCES—(WATER)— your child is happiest when expressing their creative imagination in the arts, healing, or spiritual professions. They are highly responsive and empathetic to other’s emotions, sometimes taking on the emotions of others. They are highly creative, imaginative, and intuitive and quite often need an anchor in reality. Places that are near water will sooth your child’s hyper-sensitive emotional side. Their challenge is to avoid escapism and reclusiveness. Celebrity Example—Elvis Presley

Once you understand how your children are “hard-wired” you’ll be better equipped to deal with family dynamics, issues with peers, and your child’s emotional needs. Parenting is challenging at best, having additional parenting tools is a must. By the way, the moon signs are applicable for spouses as well.

This article appeared in the September/October issue of Bella Spark Magazine.  You can find out more about it at http://www.bellasparkmagazine.com/

Babette Lacy is a Professional Astrologer, Teacher and Guest Speaker. She offers private consultations in person as well as over the phone. Babette teaches astrology classes beginning each fall. AstrologybyBabette @hotmail.com